- From Scotland With Love - Runway Webster (Eion Bailey) and Speirs (Matthew Settle) <3 Points Kelly Rutherford as Lily van der Woodsen (née Rhodes), Serena's mother and a three-time divorcée. Kelly Rutherford and Matthew Settle shoot an affectionate scene between their two characters on the set of "Gossip Girl." Matthew Settle is a 51 year old American Actor. Matthew Settle and the actress Kelly Rutherford, who played a couple role in the television series Gossip Girl, dated in actuality. . 1.1m Followers, 2,732 Following, 9,233 Posts - See Instagram photos and videos from Kelly Rutherford (@kellyrutherford) His zodiac sign is Virgo. Kelly Rutherford is a 52 year old American Actress. “Gossip Girl” stars Matthew Settle and Kelly Rutherford — who had an on-again off-again relationship throughout all six seasons of the CW series — are headed to Lifetime’s original movie “A Sister’s Nightmare,” also starring Petyon List and Natasha Henstridge. Matthew Settle as Rufus Humphrey, Dan and Jenny's father. He has supported her through a bitter custody battle with her ex-husband, so it is little surprise Kelly Rutherford and Matthew Settle have grown … Matthew and Kelly Rutherford, who played husband and wife in Gossip Girl (2007), once dated in real life. Kelly Rutherford Matthew Settle Photos - Kelly Rutherford and Matthew Settle walk the runway at the From Scotland With Love Fashion Show at The Liberty Theatre on April 2, 2012 in New York City. Matthew Settle is renowned for performing the character of Captain Ronald Speirs in the series Band of Brothers on the HBO. A former photographer, Lily has become one of the UES's most influential socialites. This needs to be real. Actors Matthew Settle (L) and Kelly Rutherford attends the 11th BrazilFoundation NYC Gala at MOMA on September 18, 2013 in New York City. Personal Quotes (1) Women are to be loved, not understood. Instagram Settle has remained close with his Gossip Girl co-star Kelly Rutherford since the hit show wrapped back in 2012. Fans are losing their minds that Kelly Rutherford and Matthew Settle might be dating, and “Lily and Rufus” became a top trending topic on Twitter on Feb. 23. TAGS: Kelly Rutherford They play a married couple on the set of Gossip Girl and now Kelly Rutherford and Matthew Settle have become inseparable after breaking up with their respective partners. Born Jeffrey Matthew Settle on 17th September, 1969 in Hickory, North Carolina, he is famous for Gossip Girl.