Hold hands. “[It] was really old/sick so it’s probably for the best.” This is just as offensive to say about pets as it is to say about elderly or ill humans. Just say something. Choose positive, hopeful words, but don't give people false hope or talk about other people's cancer outcomes. Prayer for a sick dog Father, Thank you for giving me this wonderful dog. ? A good vet can really help you with saying goodbye to your dog, by providing a professional understanding presence, with guidance and empathy. The traveler said, gesturing to the dog. “There should be a bowl by the pump” said the man. While it may be technically true due to health issues, it’s not your place to say it. Of course, you should mean what you say! Deceased dog = That jerk Jimmy I thought was my friend. I feel badly for my friend but have no idea what to say to let him know I care. So at the risk of offending some well-meaning people, here are Six Things You Should Never Say to a Friend (or Relative or Colleague) Who’s Sick. Go to appointments. Discover and share Inspirational Quotes On Sick Dogs. Also, try to be comfortable with silence: Don’t try to fill blank space with chatter about yourself, she said. The dog is 13 years old and it's sick. Ask them what you can do to help them and if you ( and the people who's dog is dying) believe in prayer, tell them you will pray for them. I have (and have always had) a hard time showing sympathy. Say that you are really sorry for their situation. Be with us Lord. It's time for it to go. Please bring your touch of restoration and healing. I have a friend whose dog is probably going to be put to sleep today or die naturally within the next week I would guess. Forever. Either way is okay, and don’t press people who don’t seem ready to talk about it. A dog can be just like a family member to some people so, you should consider giving your condolences to the family like you would if they had a love one dying. And Four Things You Can Always Say… Remember, each person is different, and hearing other people's stories may scare your friend or loved one. Offer to watch the kids or walk the dog. The traveler filled the bowl and took a long drink, then gave some to the dog. He/she is a faithful friend who has brought such companionship, joy and contentment into my life. The worst part about owning a dog is having to say goodbye, and that goodbye often feels far too soon. When they were full, he and the dog walked back toward the man Listen. I ask that you would be beside him/her. Explore our collection of motivational and famous quotes by authors you know and love. What should I say? Check in with them from time to time to see if there is anything you can do and let them know you are thinking of them. Sending A Condolence Card When A Pet Has Died. One of the best things you can say is, “Just tell me if you want me to leave or stop asking—you can’t offend me!” Winawer suggested. Deliver meals. Take away any pain and come whisper your love to him/her. Regardless of the circumstances, sending a card to express your condolences when someone has lost a pet will be appreciated. They went through the gate, and sure enough, there was an old fashioned hand pump with a bowl beside it.